If we look back 40 or 50 years, we can see that Afghan society was more open in some ways than it is today.
In many schools, boys and girls studied together until sixth grade. At universities, young men and women attended classes together. In major cities, women went to school, university, and work without being forced to cover themselves. Of course, conservative traditions also existed at that time.
So what happened? Why has Afghan society become more conservative?
In my opinion, decades of war, insecurity, and the use of religion for political power have played a major role.
More than 40 years of war destroyed not only our homes and schools but also changed the way people think and live. For many families, survival and safety became more important than freedom and progress.
At the same time, political and religious groups tried to impose their own interpretation of religion on society. Over time, many cultural traditions became tied to religion, and questioning those traditions was sometimes treated as questioning religion itself.
Even today, we see some Afghan families who have lived in Europe or America for many years becoming more conservative than earlier generations. This shows that where we live is not the only thing that shapes our thinking. Family upbringing, past experiences, and social pressure also matter.
But is being conservative really the problem?
I believe everyone has the right to live according to their own beliefs and traditions. A woman should have the freedom to wear a headscarf, and another woman should have the freedom not to wear one.
The problem begins when someone tries to force their beliefs on others.
We must understand the difference between religion, tradition, and law.
In a free society, the law must protect everyone equally, especially women and minorities. No one should lose their rights because of their religion, clothing, or way of life.
I have one question:
If boys and girls could study together in Afghanistan in the past, why has this become such a problem for some people today?
Is it because of religion, decades of war, the way new generations have been raised, or those who use religion to gain political power?
I believe Afghanistan’s future depends on education, respect for individual rights, and the rule of law.
A society is truly free when no one has the power to force their personal beliefs on others.
What are your thoughts?
Noor Wodjouatt
