In our society, liking an artist or a political figure often goes beyond simple admiration and turns into an emotional attachment. In such cases, any criticism or different opinion is not seen as a viewpoint, but as a personal attack. This behavior is not limited to a specific group. It is also seen among educated individuals and even Afghans living in Europe and the United States.
One of the main reasons for this reaction is the lack of a strong culture of accepting criticism. Many of us have grown up in environments where defending ourselves and our group was more important than listening to and understanding different perspectives. In such a setting, criticism is seen as a threat rather than a tool for growth and improvement.
Another factor is the difficult historical and social reality of Afghanistan. Years of war, instability, and psychological pressure have led many people to seek emotional anchors. A favorite artist or political leader can become a symbol of hope and identity. As a result, criticizing that person feels like questioning that hope and identity.
In our culture, there is also sometimes confusion between respect and idolization. Respecting someone does not mean agreeing with everything they say or do. But when respect turns into blind admiration, there is no space left for criticism.
In reality, no human being is perfect. Only God is beyond error and limitation. Human beings, no matter how successful or admired, are open to critique. Healthy criticism is not disrespect. It is a sign of intellectual and social maturity.
Freedom of expression means that everyone should be able to share their thoughts without fear, even when those thoughts differ from others. If we are unable to accept criticism, we close the door to growth and progress.
What is the solution
We must start with ourselves. We need to learn the difference between criticism and insult. Instead of reacting emotionally, we should try to listen and understand. We should accept that liking someone does not mean believing they are flawless. Most importantly, we should create a space where dialogue replaces intolerance.
A society grows when questions are allowed, criticism is accepted, and people can think and speak freely. This path may not be easy, but it is necessary for a better future.
Noor Wodjouatt
